Choose your friends or love wisely.

l will tell you for sure, "Tell me who you hang out with and I'll tell you who you are."

If you're serious about getting a raise or a promotional work...succeeding in your own business...or improving yourself as a human being...getting educated....having good future, then you have to start associating with people who can take you to next level.

It matters with whom you hang or with whom your surrounded.

My mom used to say, be with one who is good and positive in nature....
yes, its true. i truly admire her thinking 

What we hear, see, and learn everyday will always affect you in your day today life as well as in future. All we need to do is to gather some positive friends and be with them..

Let me directly take you to the people with different mentality positive and both negative;

Positive friends will always lead you and will always say that you "can do it". while the negative one will pull you down and always say "you can't".

Positive friends will always concentrate on the solution for your problems and negative ones will always discuss the problem and their curiosity will go on..how?where?what?n who?

Positive will always encourage you and the negative one will discourage you.

Positive friend will help you unconditionally and the negative ones will use you to make their work done.

Positive friend will be there for you whenever you need them and negative ones will only come when they need you

Positive friend will be discussing about the ideas to make better future and career while the negative ones will be having bitchy gossiping about the other person.

Positive friend will be all with good thoughts and they are the one whom you would love to spend more and more time, you will feel fresh and motivated but the negative thoughts they wont do anything in their life and will make sure that you too don't get succeed.

and list goes on....
hope you got what i wanted to say..so choose your loved ones wisely.

We all have that one friend who's busy in gossiping and discussing about others people life.
This kind of people like to judge others and let them down...
'Well! we cant change them but at least try not to be one of them.'

Not only your friends but at some stage your family and relatives play main role to discourage you...but my Friend you know now what is positively spoken or negatively..
So just grasp the positive talk and let go the negative talk..

You and your friends from society, school and even you boyfriends/girlfriends, choose them wisely.
Life gives us a choice, choose it wisely and no one can stop you to reach your goals.

Your friend will stretch your vision....or choke your dreams.......


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"Good friends are good for your health"
                                                         -Dr. Irwin Sarason.
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Why to wash your brain??

Everyone starts with a clean window in their life. 

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today, everyone of you have the dirty window or you can say your negative mind covered with all the dust or all the experienced in the past and the things which you have learnt from the surrounded people (mother, father, friends and teachers).

what all we do with those minds. we lose enthusiasm. we get frustrated. we get depressed. we give up on our dreams.all because of dusky negative mind.

In short your positive mind is being faded by all the negative thoughts and you all know, this dust should be cleared one day so that your success and aim gets cleared.

Once upon a time, 

       we all had started our lives with a good attitude or we can say a clean window or with the clean positive attitude.

What is a clean window??..let me give you one big fact example of our lives with good attitude.

       Just watch a young child, a new baby, they're always laughing and giggling. They are the world happiest and peaceful creature among us.They have sunny disposition. They love to explore new things.

let us consider the attitude of child who's learning to walk,

When he stumbles or falls down, let me tell you what he doesn't do. 

He doesn't frown or blame the carpet.

He doesn't point the fingers on her mother or father for giving him lousy instructions.

and most important he doesn't QUIT.

What he does is, he smiles, gets up again and makes another attempt.

He keeps on going for weeks and weeks until he gets it right!

His window is squeaky clean, and he feels like he can conquer the world.

but as you know, there comes a point where life starts throwing some dirt at our windows.

I was on the journey traveling down. I had a dirty window and the longer i stayed in with the window, more filthier my window got. i saw no possibilities. HOW COULD I?? my window was spattered with the mud of negativity...

but with the grace of God, I learnt that all I wanted is to clean my window! 

I had to improve my attitude in a good way so that I could see the world clearly again. like a child I can smile and conquer a world. 

after I removed the whole grime from my window, a new world was open to me. The frustration and depression was lifted up. I had more confidence. for the first time in many years, "I could see the magnificent possibilities that life had to offer'

and I was able to make the career transition and the relationships started to work in the right way. things got cleared. aims got cleared. I can see my capabilities and confidently can make a move in this new world.

do you understand how this little mind, a little change to your attitude can change your whole. life has best deal to give you only if you see through your clean window..

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"Better keep yourself clean and bright; you are the window through which you must see the world."

                                                                                                           -George Bernard Shaw

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WHAT IS ATTITUDE?

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*ATTITUDE*

Your attitude is the mental filter through which you experience the world.Some people see the world through the filter of optimism (the glass being half full) while others see their life through a filter of pessimism (the glass being half empty). 

let me give you some of the example to know how the positive and negative mindset works-

The person with positive attitude thinks, "I can", while the person with negative attitude thinks. "I cant't" 

the person with negative attitudes repeatedly thinks of problems, while the positive attitude concentrate on the solutions.

the person with negative attitude finds faults with everyone, while the positive attitude looks for the good in others.

the person of negative attitude focuses on what's missing and the person with positive attitude counts his or her blessings.

the person with negative attitude sees limitations while the person on positive attitude sees possibilities.

and goes on...

I'm sure you got the idea how its all differentiated

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"Attitudes are a secret power working 24 hours a day, for good or bad." 

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